You might remember Highlights Magazine— monthly intellectual stimulation, fun, and guidance for kids. I especially remember the hand-drawn brothers facing a new moral or behavioral issue, each in his own way. Goofus and Gallant, back in the ’60s and ’70s—my Highlights prime—were by proxy helping parents with boys and our impulsive tendencies. There was no female counterpart. At the time, I assumed girls never needed it. I did. Not that I was a bad kid; I was a pretty good kid. But I thrived on the validation I got from knowing instantly that Goofus was getting it wrong, and that I was much more like Gallant—every time! Imagine that. Every time!

Looking back as an adult, a parent, and director of this youth-centered organization celebrating its 20th anniversary year, I realize the angle Highlights was taking. Despite the characters’ giveaway names, I nonetheless felt the embrace of self-approval as I chose the Gallant way, the right choice. These boys were modeling behavior.

Parents and school teachers know all about that. Our volunteers know it too. It’s not just modeling how to hold a violin bow, or breathing deeply before singing. It’s an adult giving his or her time to make the world better. It’s an adult mentoring a young person, and modeling excellent behavior, while also coaching young pianists, drummers and strummers. Teaching musical technique is one thing. It’s quite another to teach children something positive about themselves.

Francis Graffeo, Executive Director

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